Why do we have sexual desire?
Why is sexual desire so insistent? 
Is there a difference between male and female sexual desire?
What is the difference between love and sexual desire?
What do we really want when we have sexual desire?

If these are questions that you have seriously wondered about, then The Nature of Sexual Desire, written by a professor of philosophy, is the book for you.

 
 

THE NATURE OF SEXUAL DESIRE
by James Giles

The Nature of Sexual Desire takes the reader on a fascinating journey through the psychology, philosophy, and anthropology of this most urgent of human desires. Examining both ancient writings and modern research, both Eastern and Western thought, the author argues that sexual desire is a continuous element in awareness and can only be understood in terms of our experience. The experience of sexual desire is explored and its relation to sexual interaction, erotic pleasure, the experience of gender, and romantic love, is skilfully unravelled. Sexual desire is presented in a new light: an existential need that is continually sweeping through us, pulling us on to one of life’s highest fulfilments.
  

Praise for The Nature of Sexual Desire

Giles’ spiritual understanding of sexual desire and his appreciation for the richness and exquisiteness of sexual interaction will be refreshing for those philosophers and sex therapists who believe that biological and physiological research dehumanize the joys of sexual desire and satisfaction.
Felicia De la Garza-Mercer, Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy

This readable and well-conceived book represents a lucid, synoptic assessment of a key and central feature of our humanity. Its approach is both comprehensive and systematic….The reader will find here a rich and creative synthesis of both intrapsychic and interpersonal aspects of sexual attraction, arousal, and response.
Sanford Lopater, Professor of Psychology, Christopher Newport University, co-author (with Ruth “Dr Ruth” Westheimer) of Human Sexuality: A Psychosocial Perspective

A delightful examination of the way in which cross-cultural theorists, philosophers, and psychologists have viewed the nature of sexual desire….genuine insights into human sexuality, gender, and the experience of love.
Elaine Hatfield, Professor of Psychology, University of Hawaii, Past President for the Society of Scientific Study of Sex, co-author (with Richard Rapson) of Love and Sex: Cross-Cultural Perspectives

The Nature of Sexual Desire…presents a rich and thorough exploration of the subject matter that cuts across historical perspectives and issues of culture. The author draws on understandings from sexology, psychology, philosophy and anthropology and by so doing explores all relevant perspectives.
Helen Startup, Sexual and Relationship Therapy

This book treats of the exquisite experience it studies so faithfully in a prose so elegant and direct that it has the makings of a classic destined to seduce generations of specialist and non-specialist readers.
John Llewelyn, Retired Reader in Philosophy University of Edinburgh, author of Margins of Religion
  

     

Table of Contents

Preface

1. The Problem of Sexual Desire
An Unsettling State of Affairs
The Nature of Desire

2. The Sexual Process
The Idea of a Sexual Process
Ellis and the Mechanism of Detumescence
Freud and the Pleasures of Excitation
Reich's Orgastically Satisfying Sex Act
Masters and Johnson's Sexual Response Cycle
The Phenomenology of the Sexual Process

3. The Object of Sexual Desire
Sexual Desire and Reproduction
Erotic Pleasure
Sexual Activity
From Baring and Caressing to Vulnerability and Care
The Atypical Sexual Variations

4. The Experience of Gender
The Primacy of Gender
Gender and the Genitals
The Place of Gender in Sexual Orientation
The Twoness of Gender in Sexual Desire

5. The Structure of Being in Love
Being in Love
Love as the Desire for Vulnerability and Care
The Non-Exclusiveness of Love
Ways of Being in Love
Love's Relation to Sexual Desire

6. Epilogue: Sexual Desire as an Existential Need

References
Index

 
     

   

 
  

About the Author

James Giles was born in Vancouver, Canada. He studied at the University of British Columbia and read for his PhD at the University of Edinburgh. He has taught at several places including the University of Copenhagen and the Hawaii College of Kansai Gaidai University, Japan. He is Professor of Philosophy at the University of Guam and Tutor at Madingley Hall, University of Cambridge and has travelled widely through Asia and the Pacific. Dr Giles’ work on love and sexuality has been much discussed and presented by experts in the field, including Ruth “Dr Ruth” Westheimer. Among his writings is No Self to be Found: The Search for Personal Identity.


  


 

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